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Grief, Loss and Remembrance Program

Our Chaplaincy Services staff recognizes that when a child dies, families need compassionate and skilled help in their journey through the grieving process. It is the mission of the Grief, Loss and Remembrance Program to provide the following:

Resources for Families

  • Memory boxes
  • Age-appropriate books for brothers and sisters to help them understand their sibling’s death
  • Books and print materials for parents, grandparents and other family and friends
  • See more Bereavement Resources

Outreach to Families

  • Sympathy cards
  • Bi-annual newsletter
  • Phone call to families who have lost a child to determine further needs, provide counsel, listen and support
  • Seasonal mailings with information and memory-making activities

Remembrance Events and Other Gatherings

  • Annual remembrance/memorial service for families who have lost a child
  • Fall and spring annual events to build community and support, held at the National Arboretum

Counseling and Referrals

  • One-on-one grief support and community referrals for individual counseling and support
  • Ongoing support group for Spanish-speaking families

Education and Support for Staff

  • To ensure culturally and spiritually competent staff
  • To provide one-on-one, as well as unit-based support during times of crisis and/or grief and loss
  • Memorial services for specific units who experience a significant number of deaths

Loving Stories: A Support Group for Parents and Caregivers After the Death of a Child

This group of four to eight families will meet weekly for six sessions on Zoom. Participants will share stories about their child and explore ways to bring their memories and their relationship with their child into the present through group discussion, reflection and journaling activities.

To sign up or for more information, contact Helen Cymrot (202-476-4706) or Kathleen Ennis-Durstine (202-476-3321).

Annual Remembrance Service

Every year, Children's National Hospital honors all children who have died within the past two years. Due to COVID-19, we invited families to join us virtually in 2020. View messages from our leadership, a musical solo and the reading of children's names by our chaplaincy staff.